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Fall in Love With Your Life?

Nomad

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Self love is good thing, especially for your mental health. Self is different from narcissism. Narcissism is self love to the point that you are destroying your "self." However, self love mean you not only fall in love with yourself but also appreciate the beauty around you, not just people but also things. How do you fall in love with yourself?

Wake up early, go for a walk, do exercise. Eat food you enjoy eating. Wear clothes that you feel comfortable, listen to your favorite music, watch people, listen to their stories, watch the plants dance, birds sing, animal play...

There are so many things that you can do or watch that will spread your love.

Have you ever taken moments like these to appreciate life and living?
 
We do need a little time for just our self needs. I know I need to take a break and just be alone, with my own mind and no distractions.

I think finding love for yourself is by taking time out of your busy schedule to focus on your self needs. Maybe you need to go to the spa. Treat yo self is how I see it. Give yourself a day off, go out and enjoy life a little. Then go back to the daily grind of it later.
 
You fall in love with yourself by treating yourself with respect, patience, and honesty. Accept your strengths and flaws without harsh judgment. Take care of your body and mind, set healthy boundaries, and keep promises to yourself. Self-love also grows when you appreciate small wins and allow yourself to enjoy life without constant comparison.
 
I have found it difficult to love myself over the years with everything I have gone through in my life, and even though I know that life is not always perfect, I still struggle to love myself and see self-worth in myself sometimes.

Many people will frown or have something to say about what I am about to say, but it has happened a lot over the years to many. Finding BTS at a time when my life had so much happening was the best thing to happen to my daughter and me. They teach us about self-love, and that has allowed me to start to feel more confident in myself, even though I still need to work on loving myself a little more.
 
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