Why Do Children Become Upset When Plans Suddenly Change?

[Maya]

have you reliazed when you change the plan, kids become annoying. Let's say you planned to take them outdoors for lunch but you changed plan and decided to order at home. Kids might get annoyed with a change of plan like this. Well, some kids handle changes easily, whereas others become distressed when routines, plans, or expectations suddenly shift. What do you think can help children become more flexible without dismissing the discomfort they feel?